The bitch boys slavania11/1/2022 ![]() ![]() The great thing about being a “bitchy negro” is that it will take a lot more than a bitchy bigot to ever bring me down.I know I just posted a few hours ago, but I’m posting again because you all know how dedicated I am to writing about PR pitches (both good and bad) and this one just can’t wait. I could hit the gym, which was actually why I’d woken up at 5am, and start this piece well before sunrise. #The bitch boys slavania plus#On the plus side, it took me roughly one minute more than the running time of Elton John’s “The Bitch Is Back” to write him off completely. He committed too many dealbreakers in five minutes. I’ll pass on grid guys who, like Anonymous, toe that thin line. Then he blocked me.Ĭonsidering that black is so deplorable to men like him (clearly it is, right?), why do they continue to chase it? Of course, as I’ve pointed out in many previous Grindr-inspired posts, there’s a thin line between out-of-control raging lust and out-of-control raging racism. ![]() I responded to Anonymous Guy: Racist white boy. I wouldn’t be surprised if they were simultaneously thinking: If only I wielded the power my ancestors did to use whips and chains to keep you boys in line. Hell, I’ve had them bring it up to my face. I regularly get similar messages from angry, rejected ones that refer to an apparently rampant “bad” black attitude. He’s certainly not the first GWM to go there with me. I suspect previous “bitchy negro” encounters fueled his racial animosity, and he dumped it all on me. ![]() Do they even listen to themselves?Ĭlearly Anonymous Guy has race/rage issues. But when one woman or one person of color isn’t appropriately deferential, when one woman or one person of color is or isn’t anything, so many of those privileged white men are so often and so quickly inclined to brand it a gender/race thing. I doubt there’s a privileged white man alive who would characterize the no-bullshittin’ of 10 consecutive white men as a white male thing. Why is a “bitchy negro” worse than bitchy in any other color? Is it because gay black men, so desperate and inferior, should be grateful that a gay white man would bestow upon us any attention at all? When he got around to “looking for?” it was obvious he hadn’t even bothered to read my profile. I knew from “What’s up” in his second message, that he wouldn’t be offering much. Take Anonymous Guy in Ljubljana, Slovenia. It’s where many gay men go to be their true selves (particularly between midnight and 6am). Like social media, it allows its users to hide behind a screen and say/ask the things they probably would never say/ask in real life. On most days, especially in the wee, small hours, Grindr reveals the awful, ugly truth about the psyche of gay men… of men in general. The essays Grindr inspires aren’t its only fringe benefit. I wouldn’t go so far as to say I’m actively “looking for” material when I log on, but I know I’ll usually stumble upon something worth writing about. I keep going back to the grid because it gives me so many stories that inspire me to write: Why Gay White Men (And White People In General) Need To Stop Joking About Race, What being a gay black man has taught me about the sexual objectification of women, To Horny Gay White Men…, … Even my book - Is It True What They Say About Black Men? - owes much of its content to experiences and epiphanies I’ve had while manhunting online. I haven’t given up on love stories in theory, but I’m not holding out for a hero on Grindr. After nearly six years, Grindr has yet to launch a single one of those. More than cheap nothings, though, I do Grindr for the stories. Grindr has the best cheap-thrill delivery. I’ve more or less outgrown quickies, but sometimes great lips are as important as a beautiful mind. They’d like to know, too.įor the record, I do it, in (smallish) part, because I get as horny as the next guy. Have a seat next to some of my best friends. If you’ve read any of my race- and dating-themed essays and wondered why the hell I keep going back to the grid, join the club. My lousy failure-to-success ratio with the dating/hook-up app backs it up. Grindr, like the Amy Winehouse version of love, is a losing game. ![]()
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